We don't want to tell you how to design your site, its yours after all so we're not going to throw a bunch of rules at you that you probably won't read anyway. We will hand review each and every site you submit to us provided that the reciprical link up and in a good place for each site. Any submissions without the reciprical link will not be reviewed. If we like your site which is probably going to be more likely than not, then you'll get a great permanent listing and lots of cool traffic. Because we feel confident that we will have no problem listing most submissions, we will only send you an email if we feel there is a problem with your site. Please be patient with us though since we are hand reviewing, it could take a few days to get to your submission. 

Here are the buttons
Link them to http://www.sex-linx.com/
(Do not try to directly serve them, download them to your server instead)